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Men’s Health 101: From Bathroom Trips to Heart Health
- Julia Hebard
- 5 days ago
- 3 min read
As we get older, health conversations can start to feel a little…awkward. I get it—I’ve had plenty of clients and family members squirm at the thought of talking about prostate, bladder, or even heart issues. But trust me, these are really common concerns for men as they age, and knowing what to watch for can make a huge difference in comfort, independence, and overall quality of life.
Prostate Health: The “Little Gland” That Causes Big Worries
The prostate is a small gland, but it can create some big headaches as men get older. Around age 50 and beyond, it’s common for the prostate to enlarge—a condition called benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH). While BPH isn’t cancer, it can make trips to the bathroom frustrating. PSA blood tests should also be performed to rule out prostate cancer.
Some common signs of an enlarged prostate include:
Difficulty starting or stopping the urine stream
Weak urine flow
Frequent trips to the bathroom, especially at night
Feeling like the bladder isn’t fully empty
I remember one client telling me, “I feel like I’m married to my bathroom!” If this sounds familiar, small lifestyle tweaks, like cutting back on late-night drinks or caffeine can help. And yes, doctors can prescribe medications that really help.
Bladder Changes: More Than Just “Getting Older”
Bladder issues aren’t just a nuisance, they can affect sleep, mood, and independence. Men might notice:
Sudden urges to go (urgency)
Leaks when coughing, sneezing, or lifting
Infections that seem to keep coming back
Sometimes exercises like pelvic floor strengthening can even reduce leaks, yes, men can do these too!
Heart Health: Keep That Engine Running Smoothly
Heart disease is the leading cause of death for men, and the risk goes up as we age. High blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes, and a sedentary lifestyle all play a role.
Encouraging regular screenings, a balanced diet, and consistent exercise, think daily walks or a morning stretch routine, can make a huge difference. Even small steps count.
Colon Health: Screening Saves Lives
Colon cancer risk increases with age, usually starting around 45–50. Screening via colonoscopy can detect changes early, when treatment is most effective. Sometimes I hear men say, “Do I really need this?” I tell them: it’s a quick way to catch problems before they become serious, and afterward, you’ll be relieved you went. And no, the prep is NOT THAT BAD!
Mental Health: Emotional Well-Being Matters
Depression, anxiety, or memory changes can sometimes be overlooked in older men. Feeling “off” isn’t just part of aging; it’s worth talking about. Social connection, hobbies, therapy, or even medication when needed can all make a big difference.
One dad I worked with started a weekly card game with his neighbors. He swore it was just for fun, but his mood and energy improved noticeably within weeks. Simple social habits can really help mental health.
Sleep: The Often-Overlooked Health Pillar
Poor sleep can worsen heart health, mental well-being, and bladder function. Frequent nighttime bathroom trips, sleep apnea, or insomnia are common.
A few tips I share with families:
Keep a consistent bedtime—even on weekends
Elevate the head slightly if reflux or snoring is an issue. If people tell you you are snoring, consider getting a sleep study. They can be done at home now!!
Consider white noise or blackout curtains for better rest
Tips to Support Men’s Health at Home
If you’re caring for an aging father, husband, or friend, here are some practical steps:
Encourage regular doctor visits and screenings, make it a joint calendar event so it feels less intimidating
Keep a bladder diary to track patterns
Maintain hydration, but balance it with nighttime comfort
Promote healthy habits: a short walk, a fun hobby, or a simple stretching routine can do wonders
Support mental health with social interaction, humor, and hobbies
Encourage good sleep habits and troubleshoot nighttime disruptions
Remember, these issues aren’t just a “normal part of getting old,” they’re common, but treatable. Talking about them openly can prevent discomfort, improve quality of life, and help your loved one stay independent longer.
If your dad, or any man in your life, is experiencing frequent bathroom trips, weak urine flow, sudden urges, sleep disturbances, or mood changes, don’t brush it off.
A friendly conversation with his doctor could make a world of difference in his day-to-day life.
If you're concerned about your health or the health of a loved one and don't know where to start, schedule a FREE consultation with us today.
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